“Be our Jerry Lewis?”
November 20, 2013
As I listened to Jack Osbourne talk frankly about his MS on Dancing with the Stars Monday night, I made a wish. I wished Jack would be an ongoing voice for the multiple sclerosis community after the program concludes. He has created awareness of MS and has inspired so many these past couple of months; however, when the show is over, I don’t want the buzz he is creating to be forgotten.
We have needed a well-known person that could do the same thing for multiple sclerosis that Jerry Lewis did for years with representing and fundraising for muscular dystrophy. But Jack could do even more in a different way, because Jack, unlike Jerry, lives with MS. He is one of us which makes him credible. And people like Jack.
I have been very involved with the MS community since my own diagnosis in the early 1980’s. While research has intensified and MS awareness has increased since then, a basic understanding of what MS really is still critically needed and equally important:
MS is an unpredictable, invisible, interfering, often disabling neurological disorder that has no cure and isn’t fatal or contagious. One that impacts millions of people, lasts a lifetime, and has immense costs associated with it for every citizen of the country.
It is amazing how many persons—even health professionals like nurses, GP’s—who don’t really understand what MS is. (Yes!—I actually gave a presentation about MS to an ER staff of fifty at a local hospital this summer.) There are many misconceptions about MS. (No!—20% end up in a wheelchair, not 100%.) And those of us dealing with this neurological disorder feel misunderstood, ignored, and forgotten. We feel this way because we know:
• On the outside so many of us look good unless we have some kind of walking aid to indicate otherwise. We’re not bleeding, we have good color in our faces, and we are not coughing or blowing our noses. When we look good, people automatically assume that we are good.
• Very often we are not good because so many of the symptoms are invisible. Pain, tingling, numbness, fatigue, dizziness, tightness, depression, blurry vision, balance, coordination—the list is endless. These symptoms interfere with everything we think, say or do. They are annoying; they hurt; they are frustrating; and they make us crabby. These symptoms are very disabling.
• Invisible symptoms are difficult to describe, and when we tell someone about them it’s hard for them to understand or empathize. Sometimes we use examples like “When I walk, it feels like I have a ten-pound weight on my ankle”, “It’s like when your arm falls asleep but never wakes up” or “My hands look normal, but I can’t button buttons.”
Jack “looked so good” dancing on the show. But then he talked about how his MS unpredictably acted up this past week, how it interfered with rehearsals, and what invisible symptoms he was experiencing (vision, fatigue, shooting pain in his limbs). With the intense stress with the finals in the competition, he is uncertain what will happen down the road with his health. It’s not like having a sprained ankle that will mend after it gets iced, wrapped, treated and rested.
We all know that to survive MS, a tremendous amount of support is necessary, and not only from family and friends. Physical, mental, emotional and financial support. Support for us individually due the difficulties and disabilities we live with; support for the MS community as a whole financially–to fund research for curing MS, preventing MS, and restoring lost function due to its damaging effects; and support for other programs such as social security disability.
People not understanding what MS is all about hinders the support that we need. MSers can learn to effectively “manage” their illness, not just “battle” it.
There are so many of us out there walking, biking, blogging and volunteering in countless ways to overcome our obstacles caused by MS. But it just hasn’t been enough, fast enough, or unified enough. Increased education and advocacy led by Jack Osbourne—such as hosting an annual united event–would enhance our goals exponentially.
What do you think? Will you ask Jack Osbourne to stay in the forefront and be our MS spokesperson? Or is this just wishful thinking on my part?